Your W's behavior is pretty standard fair unfortunately. Crazy thing is it has little to with sex in most cases. Just a need to be wanted driven by insecurity. Knowing that doesn't make it any easier to deal with though.
Like Trapt said, you need to decide (not today) if you have the stomach for this. It truly is as close to hell as you will get.
_________________________ Me-41 W-39 M-15 yrs T-17 yrs D-12 S-9 S-8 B 5/08 S 1/09