I kind of forgot what I like to do. I'm always busy w/boys and their sports!
I think it's wonderful that your so involved with your boys.
however, your post "I kind of forgot what I like to do." I remember that. and makes me see that is a big problem. Start thinking on that one. Maybe you might not like the same things as you did before, and perhaps you can find some new things that you've never done that you end up loving. But I think this is one of the reasons your having problems getting to a place of happiness without your H.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
Pearl - the trench was darling, but my hair kept getting caught in the collar. SO ANNOYING, and then it would stick inside the collar and I would look like I had a bob! NOT a good look on me.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
Just talked to Naturopath. She will handle options for depression, and tie it to blood work when he has his next appt. She said she wouldn't be lying, as there are things she saw in his blood that aren't "alerts" but could tie to his emotional health.
"We never had this conversation."
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
Your boys are like little petri dishes of sickness. They keep bringing home everything but that's what kids do. Too kind... they want to give stuff to you, right? Then you'll end up nursing them and while they are recovering you'll be getting sick. I know how it goes. Gotta love them
Kara - it's a really good thing they're cute, because I'm about ready to put them up for sale! The stomach bug wasn't good enough to make the jeans loose. WHY BOTHER!??!??!?!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
Funny about where you heard about ODP! LOL S12 is a very talented soccer player. He's worked hard at it... I remember asking his U9 coach if this was really the sport for him (he ran around like chaos and destruction!). He told me to be patient. Wow
S9 has the more natural talent. He's almost a full-time gk, and has played club since he was six (hey, his bro was doing it, why not?). I say natural talent because GK's are just a little off... and he's unique! They like to get shot on non-stop! He begs S12's friends to unleash on him! And, now we have this jugg machine that you can set up to 60mph to shoot at him.
WARPED
I'm just the mom. I drive. I make snacks. I make sure they're uniforms are clean.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
