I did. I would if I were you. ON THE SAME DAY you inform her H.

How does this sound?:

I know you are involved with my H. Please respect our marriage and family by ending your relationship with him.

No threats, disrespect, judgments etc. No further communication or discussion with her (if she responds).

She will then get it from 2 sides at the same time.




"If you strike me down, I will become more powerful than you can possibly imagine!"
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