mb28 - its going - I am learning to detach. Hardest dang thing I have ever done. I have let go of the anger - huge load off my shoulders. I even had the courage to tell H on Sunday that I was not angry anymore - that we needed to move forward and become friends again. Have had NC with H since Sunday - not that I don't want it!!
reading LOTS everyday have 2 DB books and the 3rd is on the way. they say knowledge is power! Keeping a journal too.
LNG Me - 37 H - 42 S - 19 D - 16 D - 14 M - 20 years S - 1/11/2010 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1942142&page=1