Lostnotgone,
Thanks for the advice. How is your sitch going?

4luv,
Thanks for the advice. I agree with you, it would make her more important. I will just continue to work on contacting OWH.

Together 16 years
Married 12 years
Me 36
H 34
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09
Confirmed A 1/25/10
Exposed A 1/26/10
H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10