I say if she calls him on his 'stuff' and is leading him to facing his 'issues', then she is a good fit. Maybe not for MC per se, but my old MC told us that Dan had so much of his own crap to deal with first that needed handled before we did a lot of couple's stuff anyway. So it sounds like you are actually getting a combo of IC/MC which is great!
Glad to see such positive steps every time I check in on you!!
