Hopeless feelings

[lostnotgone]

mb28
When I got to looking around the computer I was able to get the OW IM. I told her I knew who she was - I knew that she had asked to ensure that their A was kept very QUIET! (I saw the emails they exchanged). I told her that WAS NOT going to happen anymore.Also told her that if she went anywhere near my children I would file for a restraining order!! I called her a few choice words too!! When I mentioned the courts she immediatly logged off - 10 minutes my H called me and wanted to meet... that's when I dropped the BOMB on him and told him I knew everything and had the emails and IMs they exchanged.

I have ALL the OW contact information - I even have her home address and her H's information - home phone number etc. I got all this by doing a reverse email check!! I even have her FB. I had typed up a message for her H but have decided that she is nothing, that I have to focus on my M and not her situation.

I would by ALL means confront OW - is OW married ? If yes - let her know that you know and if needed you will take the steps to expose her. Seemed to have work for me for the moment.

GOOD Luck - I think confronting the OP has to be a personal choice - but if you are like me you will fill some empowerment by confronting the OW.