Over with nothing too painful. Financially I did ok she pays for first $15k loss on the house and 2/3rds after that. She pays all income taxes this year. Everything else as is. One thing I found out is that once student loans are consolidated they stay that way forever. So for the next 20 years we both have to make the payment. We had some time together alone in the hall and just bs'd about family and such. Whole thing went pretty smooth. I was calm and collected the whole time. At least until I got to my truck and cried like a little girl. All that is left is to sign the final papers and the judge will sign off. Officially divorced in 3 weeks
"Seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well" Matthew 6:33