I am interested in finding out more about the keylogger for the laptop. She communicates with OM mostly through AOL, but receives notifications on her phone when she's offline.
I was able to take a look at her phone a few weeks ago when she left it unlocked; she had deleted all of the sent and received text messages, but the call log only showed calls to or from family. Since OM lives in England, I don't know that she has talked to him on the phone.
Up to now, I have accepted this situation, because I rationalized that as long as we were living and sleeping together, we weren't too broken to fix, and that we would eventually get better together. I am tired of living in fear of what might happen if my marriage fell apart and my W stopped being a part of my life, and I am tired of being forced to accept this OM in our M under the guise of being "Just Friends".
I am trying to stand up for myself. It has been hard for me, but that doesn't mean it isn't worth doing. I realize I am not moving as quickly as everyone would like. I apreciate everyone's help, and I thank you for your patience and understanding.
