I agree to use the boards for support. Fam will always side w/ you and likely encourage you to file and get over it- they want you to be happy and don't care what it takes for you to get there.
My father flips on me when I let him know I'm taking no action, but also keeping no expectations- to him it is not logical, and he believes I am only hurting myself.
It's only b/c they love you though, so keep that in mind as well.
