no, the problem is not that you are a mooch (because you are not), the problem is you get to eat your cake without the responsibilities of the world beating down upon you. You are making your decision in a vacuum
I absolutely agree.
There is definitely a dynamic between the two of you that is quite odd for me. Can't put my finger on it, but there seems to be a significant emotional distance between the two of you.
Has it always been so?
Someone earlier mentioned that you were "Spock-like" in your apparent emotional detachment from this. I would say that same sounds true of your wife.
Guess I just expect more sparks and fire, given the circumstances.
Bill
"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."