K,

Originally Posted By: Kalni
So H agreed gladly to continue with MC. He said he didnt even consider stopping, how did I come up with that idea?

See what happens with mind-reading? wink

Originally Posted By: Kalni
I am not sure she is a good fit though. I think we need a C that is far more experienced with marital counceling.

Um... considering what others have said, she sounds pretty good. She's not only putting him on the spot, but you too.

I know you're miles ahead of her in some areas. K you have to admit you're beyond laying the foundations in your mindset while your H is still looking for the plot i.e. common ground to build ( and yes pun intended)

Originally Posted By: Kalni
For now, I am happy if we can make progress any way possible.

And THAT my dear friend is the goal you're striving for... PROGRESS ... not regress or stagnation.

((( Maria ))))