Ring On or Ring Off????

[Jack_Three_Beans]

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I'm a little rough around the edges, and I deffinately 'talk' better with guys...which is why I tend to stay away from posting to women. I'm not really good at cute and cuddly...and even that might have come across poorly.

I believe everyone who finds there way here, did so with a purpose and a choice. Trying to DB may feel like it is all about self inflicted suffering with cheerleaders egging you on...but that is not really what it is about.

DBing is REALLY about changing the way YOU are in a relationship, it is self help, with an eye to better the relationship you are in...in MLC cases...you have to learn how to outlast their MLC on top of bettering yourself for the future...and the time involved is actually a benefit to you. I know it doesn't seem like it.

For instance.

BrandNewDay, lost wieght, took up kickboxing, realized that she could, as hard as it was) raise 8 children all on her own. All the while taking care of others here. Add that kickin accent, and...WOW.

Eveyone who figures out to use this time here to work on themselves regrets none of this.

I am not trying to be mean to you here. I do not mean to come across that way, hence the smiley faces. I have no reason to be mean to anyone here.

Everyone is capable of doing this, I just want everyone here to give it their best shot, their level best effort, because down the road I do not want ANYONE here to have any regrets about their actions, or decisions.

OK?