I don't know who it's harder on the WAS or the LBS- at times my W would tell me her pain and I was there for her, but when it was my turn to share mine, she was gone.
Anything you can do to make things easier is on Sandi's list.
And that's easier on you and on W as well. You will have some anxiety for sure, you will have doubts as well. Just don't try to read too much- I did and it drove me crazy. And crazy does not lead to stressfree interactions and PMA and a healthy environment
