Now that's my sort of advice! laugh

I just found a Buddhist-mindfullness-CBT-and EMDR therapist local. Where was she 4 months ago??

I will meet with her next Tuesday, just as a prelim meeting. Then she is going on vacation until APRIL--aaahh!

But, I can go see C #1 in the meantime. She was very soothing to talk to; didn't watch the clock; took my statements and turned them around for me to look at from a different perspective.

But the bartender trick will work for those after-work therapy sessions!


Me: 44
Him: 42
Together: 23 years; never married
Bomb: August 1, 2009
Affair since May 2009
Walk away; no conversation; no process