I think the point is- you are doing something and expecting something in return- send text- get a reply
if she's not reciprocating, that's her- the answer isn't more texts
she says something about money- OK, its about money- no big deal, enjoy your holiday see you when you get back
The LBS will tear everything apart looking for reason or logic or answers.
Right now there is none. So focus on you.
I did the same thing- communication was a huge failure in my R/M. I tried to correct it, but WAW doesn't want to deal or try.
The answer isn't me trying to make her. The answer is for me to turn the other way, and learn from my mistakes, and do not repeat them.
As for your R- do you want to take hostages or volunteers?
Cheers dude. She was a WAW 7 years ago. She initiated us dating again. I'm no longer a left behind spouse. I simply wanted some honest opinions. I'm not trying to win her back because I don't really care how it goes. Just wanted some feedback on whether her behaviour is rude. We text everyday you know, about kids and stuff. Is it really ok to just decide to ignore texts without telling me? You lot seem to think it's fine because you're all doing anything to get your ex back whereas I'm not.
