Quote: Pam...CHL CANNOT post freely knowing you are reading. I think your reassurances about his "private" thread were very much needed.
But as he knows only too well, there are times when you can get into a state where you are NOT thinking clearly...THAT's what he's concerned about.
Exactly
Quote: On the OTHER hand, CHL, at SOME point Pam NEEDS to know where your heart and head are at...right?
I sense that you may not be ENTIRELY sure of that yourself right now...or perhaps your ARE, but are afraid of what it would do to her in her present state.