That is a standard line in all D papers. It doesn't make it any easier, it doesn't make it true, it just is.
As far as her renigging on what she agreed to two weeks ago, did you get it in wrting from her then? If not, you are probably going to have to fight this tooth and nail in court unless she magically comes to her senses. She is in a very deep fog right now and is letting her circumstances overwhelm her. Yes, she created the circumstance with her decisions but she is not facing that right now. She is freaked out and you are the easiest punching bag for her to hit.
I'm not sure I understand how not being able to refinance the house in her name makes her only choice taking full custody of the girls. What is that about?
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!