I appreciate your feedback but it doesn't help if people don't read the post properly and mix up the central issue. The central issue is not necessarily the contents of the text conversation it's the fact that she thinks I should have to guess her decisions.
I'll leave you with this thought, since you've now used this word in two or three posts here.
There is no "proper" way to communicate with your spouse, or even with others. We come across as we come across, whether that is our intent or not.
In other words, "perception is reality." If your wife says "You're not hearing me," then that is a GIFT she has given you, a key to her heart. It may seem to you to be unreasonable, illogical, and that she's "not hearing YOU 'properly'," but it is a key nonetheless.
Puppy
I heard what she was saying dude. My issue was when she decided to say it.
I think you guys on here have all become too used to making excuses for WAWs.
If somebody who you regularly exchange texts with (and either of you initiate) decides to suddenly ignore them without informing you in an adult way, this is rude and childish.