You are deliberately evading what I'm trying to say.
Mind reading, Dude. Maybe it's you with the communication problem.
What response from her would have made sense for you?
Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.