Sweetie there are lots of peeps in your area who are going through and have come through the MLC. Check them out on the MLC board.
The problem is that MLC is a whole different avenue. The normal DBing processes don't work there. You literally have to wait it out. It is hard, and it blows, but this process can take years. So you need to decide whether or not you are dedicated enough to your H and your marriage to wait it out. It is horrible, we are talking extra marital affairs, and some of the strangest shiznit you have ever seen. But the marriages that do survive it end up stronger.
I know alot about the MLC, so if you have any questions, let me know. Between living through it, and studying it for school, I am a wealth of knowledge on a subject I would rather know nothing about!
(((Hugs)))
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
