That's debateable but open to discussion and discovery.
Like I just said on my thread, I've only met a handful of truly good men that are not in my family. It's just so weird. Of course, I haven't met them in the context of possibly dating them given that I haven't been with anyone other than xh since I was 18. Over 20 years later.......wth is left out there? SCARY!!!!!!
So many of the men on this site seem like genuinely nice men who have had a rough time of it so there is ever hope I guess. The problem is actually meeting one of those type of men in RL. My problem is I live in suburban hell. There are NO single men around here. This is the land of the 4 bedroom, 2 bath house on a half acre with a picket fence and 2.5 kids and a dog. Perfect for families (which is why we moved here), HORRIBLE FOR SINGLE WOMEN. Atlanta was voted as the top city in the country for singles but they forgot to mention that the only singles it's top for are those who are 23-30 years old with no children, rock hard bodies, and wealthy. The rest of us slobs can suck eggs as far as any of these polls are concerned - we don't count.
It's all crazy!!!
I'm thinking vibrators are verboten in convents Lola, but outside the convent walls - anything goes!!! Hail to the creator of DURACELL! LOL!
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
Mis, Yes, there are times I when reading posts on here I think there are good, genuiune, honest men left there are. You just have to find them. I don't want to meet anyone in a bar ...so where then? Well if it makes you feel better Mish I too live in much the same. Land of perfect, same homes you speak of....
No, can't do the online thing. I created a profile on a couple and then never plunged in. Just too scary. *sigh* Who knows, maybe he'll just fall into my lap....LOL!!!
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
You know, I have tried the online dating thing, and I find that pretty words are just that. Words. The second date I had was with a really good looking guy who seemed to think the only thing I could possibly be interested in was going back to his place. There was no spark, no chemistry. And even if there had been, well, I don't know this man well enough.
Anyway, I just think there are several different types of chemistry for two people to really be interested in each other, and I am not so sure you can find that online. That doesnt mean that I am not looking a bit, but I am really not so sure that I will be taking the plunge anytime soon. I think it will have to be done the old fashioned way...meeting, dating, and then take it from there.
If that ever happens...
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
Yeah. Sleep. I was going to go visit my friend in Pennsylvania, but nixed that w/ the weather.
I need to get the affidavit from SG so I can register my car. I sent it to him, along w/ the VIN number. The car is in his name, and since there is still a lien on it, I can't have it transferred to mine.
I am going to go Tuesday to get my license changed from TX to NYS. After that, I need to register this car. Of course, he is getting kind of pissy b/c he is sick, no excuse, so that makes me want NC now. I don't feel like getting my head bitten off again.
Hopefully by the time my new license comes in he will have gotten off his duff and signed and mailed the affidavit. Otherwise come April, I will have no car to drive.
Still no divorce papers. You would think someone who wants a divorce so damned bad would shoot the email. Its a click of a button. WTF is so difficult? This aggravates me to no end, there is no closure. I wonder if he is doing that on purpose, just to fudge with my head.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
HELLO STUPID GERMAN...you were supposed to send it to me so I could finish it???? Duhhhhh....
OMG. I need a new brain.
And my heart is breaking.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
