Thanks for your reply. You seem to be missing my main point.
My main point is that all of this was communicated AFTER she had decided to ignore my text. She then seemed to think I should have guessed why she ignored it. I am saying she should simply comunicate this to me at the time I texted in a straight-forward and adult manner.
Oh. Sorry; we thought you were trying to improve your communication skills with your wife, since they had been a problem for you in the past.