Hi Sandi, I have studied the list you gave me, made a copy of it and keep it with me, and have started with some of the principles. The simple ones such as do not persue, act happy and fine with everything, etc. I have scheduled a phone coaching session to get some further guidance. I just can't wrap my head around her actions.(i.e. mood swings) Some nights when I get home, things are good. She's talkative, happy, and seems OK. Other nights she is not the person I married. I read a post in here from a guy who called his wife an "alien". That's a good way to desribe her. What has changed with me is how I react or don't react to her moods. I try to stay even keeled. I listen and look her in the eyes when she talks about things, good or bad. I have been in panic mode for several months, feeling like I'm running out of time, that I had to do something immediately. The hardest part is being patient! Thanks for checking in and I welcome all the help I can get. I really look forward to it!
