Motive - good question... 1) need to tell him the decision about the house.
2) and this is the hard one... I am having issues detaching - I feel that if I disconnect completely I will really lose him. This is why we are where we are...we disconnected from each other - shut eachother out. How do we get back with total detachment?
LNG Me - 37 H - 42 S - 19 D - 16 D - 14 M - 20 years S - 1/11/2010 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1942142&page=1
