I can't even type I am so upset. Both of my H parents are deceased. But he was very close to his father - he really admired him. He has an older brother who leaves in a halfway house. He spent some time in the house when hy H was a child, but he was removed from the home and sent to a facility. My H has never visited, doesn't talk about him, says he doesn't know him. I have always suspected that there was a truamatic event from his childhood, but I figured he would tell me when he was ready. When I have approached the topic to him early last year, he didn't deny that there was something but he never elaborated.

Not sure how I will get through this day. His birthday is tomorrow. It was always special.


OLD THREAD-http://tinyurl.com/y98nuty
Me 44
H 51
T 15 yrs
M 9+ yrs
No Kids
"You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment unless you trust enough."