Unbelievable

[NNP1965]

nikblondiew I am so sorry that you are going through this.

I have read enough to know that your H and mine are very similar. I've come to realize that all the old cliches that I always thought were just old cliches are actually very true.

"You have to love yourself, before you can love someone else"

This says it all for me. Your H, my H, BBJ's H... they do not love themselves. Quite honestly they most likely loathe themselves and therefore are incapable of loving us.