You may need to hear from some others b/c I would not call myself successful at this.
I would let him initiate- I guess thats the best way. I hope some others will weigh in; but your H will have to initiate- in the meantime do all the things you are doing for you, if he texts dont reply immediately unless its an emergency, otherwise calls should go to VM; and returned when you are not feeling anxious or excited.
