Husband in Crisis - what do I do?

[peacetoday]

Hi D
welcome
sorry ur pain
I read your initail post in seperated
Many of the WAH sound alike and do similar behaviors
It is recommeneded to work on yourself
GAL get a life
find hobbies, new friends, therapy
let your H go
practice being cordial and validate him when you interact
there is nothing you can do to stop the crises or change his mind at this point
check your finances
seperate all credit cardes ect
if it is MLC, the wah can spend everything and leave th LBS in debt
do not trust him at this point
think of yourself and your future
they re not the same men and wont be for some time
I know it is hard, but most of us here walk away for the better in time
we grow and although it wasnt whatt we oringinally wanted or planned it is good and better for some of us than we expected even if WAH never returns
have faith
work on yourslef
you will get thru the transition
this is your journey..he has his
it is seperate now
no way to stop it
peace