Thanks Lotus,

I'm trying to be more like that person, but what she was asking for I couldn't offer, not yet at least. I felt she was so controlling to ask me to cut off all ties to anything online unless I'd share everything. She read my email once, misunderstood it, and then got very angry and demanded a D. Why? A misunderstanding! Even when I tried to explain in calmly, she didn't (and partly doesn't) believe me.

So do I cut off all ties? Do it only behind her back?