Thank you JCJ - I will copy the post.

I cannot seem to get my mind to stop thinking about him and wanting him to return home. I feel he is controlling everything. Before he found out about possibly being deployed overseas, he took no action. I told me a few days ago, he is thinking about retaining a lawyer, because if he is deployed, we need to have some sort of separation agreement in place.

I am overly distraught over the thought of him being deployed and he doesn't seem to care. Makes me feel so unwanted and angry!

I am not sure where we will come out with this. But I do hope the best for my H and myself.


OLD THREAD-http://tinyurl.com/y98nuty
Me 44
H 51
T 15 yrs
M 9+ yrs
No Kids
"You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment unless you trust enough."