Trying to move on

[awest1217]

I guess now is the time to think about you. This is so horrible, but you have to do now what is best for you and your daughters. I completely understand the weight of debt because I have thought about my sitch and the debt load so I understand her going for more money, but there are other ways besides just foregoing the agreement she made.

Do the best you can today, and some time soon you and W need to sit down and tell the girls what is happening. They need to know that divorce is happening. Also this may help with D10 and wanting W to go with you to Medieval Times. She may understand that now is not a good time to have a "family dinner". Take care of yourself. Do something to help you.