I really wish she would consider something like Retrouvaille. I think the big issue is that she doesn't consider her boss the OM. She's had a hard enough time admitting it to me, much less herself. She kept telling me how "nothing" happened and that it wasn't cheating, etc. Then I would stop her and tell her how she told me they made out and if I had done what she did, what would she call it? She would be quiet for a long time and then say "cheating".
Her aunt the nun, told me before she always thought my W suffered from low self-esteem. I actually went to her when all this happened to get my spiritual side straight.
Did your H show any of these signs of depression before he came back? Read on and you'll see what happened today.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.