Trying to move on

[awest1217]

I don't know what to say. I am so sorry to hear you got the papers. I think at this point you may want to say whatever you have left unsaid, but make sure it is in a positive light and not attacking. If you really want to say you want another chance and that you need her, at this point the worst that will happen is she will just continue with the D. This is completely horrible and I am at a loss for words.

I think the worst part is her going back on what she agreed two weeks ago just because she is broke. There are other things she can do so that she doesn't have to worry about money. Many divorcees have to move in with their parents for a while. If that happened I know the girls would have to move schools so maybe them living with you would be best until she can get on her feet since you are ok right now. Then she can move and you can put the house up for sale and when it sells you would have to split the loss, but that is better than what she is saying. You may have to really dig deep and go for sole custody too. Sorry to say, but it sounds like she is going to make this a messy divorce. Try to take the high ground whenever possible. That does not mean let her get her way, but stay polite and cordial because that will help your side.

I am so sorry. This completely sucks! I will be praying for you.