"Are you saying you're having misgivings about my getting advice here because even though it may pay off in my getting my ex back I wouldnt have changed/evolved in the process?"
Uh let's put it this way. You haven't done anything yet one way or the other. You ask a lot of questions, get answers to them and you don't do anything with them.
Yet you repeat the same mistakes over and over again, Then come to the boards and say "I don't get why she's doing this". Why? Why? Why?
How about you try just ONE thing and see how that goes?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.