The point is that it's NOT to benefit your relationship problem. SHE started it. SHE has the issue with it. SHE is the one cheating on you.

And yet...

YOU are the one who is out of the house. YOU are the one who can't even get your own mail without permission. YOU are the one who has remained faithful.

So let's see, you are letting the inmates run the prison.

All you are doing is moving back into YOUR own house. Let me repeat.

YOUR HOUSE.

She wants another guy, let her move in with him.

The bigger picture is that you are standing up for yourself.

Keep all records of her interactions with the OM. That should squash the restraining order issues. Retain a L or at the very least, get a consult from one.

But hey. If you don't mind her dickin' around with another guy in your house, that's your call.

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Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

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