If you decide to add any type of software to her computer, it would be a good time while she's gone. Do you think she would know anything had been added?

It does raise red flags about her trip, but you can't do anything about it. Stinks, doesn't it?

Valentines is always a difficult dicision in DB. My advice would be to get only a card that is not romantic. After all, this is a woman who wants to D. you, so it would seem very pursuing to get a mushy V. card.

If you are going to be with the kids on V. Day, you could get them something. Just play it by ear. I doubt your W will "rememeber" to get you anything.

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!