On the valentines front personally I wouldnt bother, maybe do some thing nice as a family, if you feel a card is appropriate then do what I have done, I got my friend to make mine as I didnt want anything too soppy, on the front it says "to someone special" and its blank inside, Ive still got to think about what to put but I didnt want to add my name to something I dont feel at the moment. My H has booked to do something all weekend we are together friday evening so Im not sure what Im gonna expect to get.
With regard to W's visit stay cool and calm, what ever she is up to she is going to do regardless. I know its hard I shall be glad when the last hobby day of H's is over as when he goes back to his old haunts he seems to be more distant as if he is hankering after being there! Sorry here I go mind reading lol!
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Once lost but now found and happily married again!