whatever you do, do it all with a calm voice.

no anger, speak matter of fact-like.

because, I have a feeling that you would normally talk loudly or very effectively voice your opinions when H would do something you don't like. So, speak calmly and only when absolutely necessary. do not engage in any arguments or R talk. If HE starts them, then just listen, and say, I appreciate your honesty. and then go about your business.




Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."