because, I have a feeling that you would normally talk loudly or very effectively voice your opinions when H would do something you don't like. So, speak calmly and only when absolutely necessary. do not engage in any arguments or R talk. If HE starts them, then just listen, and say, I appreciate your honesty. and then go about your business.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."