Option three was she would 'find some man who she can talk to and maybe would love her for who she is'. Comments?
Yes. Why don't you find her a man she can talk to who would maybe love her for who she is. Why don't you be that man?
That is what we mean when we say be the best that you can be. She is asking you to do it. Talk to her. Ask her about that man. What would he be like. What would he talk to her about? How would he show her that he loved her? Do you know who she really is? Do you know how she sees herself?
