also still don't understand how I am just supposed to move back in.
You simply move back in. It's legally your home.
Do it.
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If tell her that I'm moving back in at this point she is gonna tell me to go
Who gives a flying fiddler's f***?
It's your home.
Move back in.
I had my wife trying to do the exact same things with me but I did not move out. I also left my wife in Europe with OM and moved back to the family home in Australia - no contact at all for 25 days.
Do what must be done.
Just because something is very tough, it doesn't mean that it isn't worth doing.
DBing is about doing what works. You must accept that for now, your wife is in no fit state to be your wife. I can guarantee you that pandering and supplicating to this adulteress will not work.
Not ever.
Manning up and taking a strong stand will.
Never confuse faith that you will prevail in the end—which you can never afford to lose—with the discipline to confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be Admiral James Stockdale
best,
GH31
Me: 46 W: 46 T: 23 M: 20 DS12 DD11 DS5
W left: 01/28/08 Discovered OM: 02/26/08 W back for 9 days: 04/08 W returned 05/21/08 EA/PA - 01/08-07/09 W's MLC 2008-2014 (realised this much later)
