Weird question perhaps, but my W knows I'm communicating with a forum to try to get help for our M. She feels angry about this and demanded that I share what I write. Option two was that I stop. Option three was she would 'find some man who she can talk to and maybe would love her for who she is'.
I would not share what I write.
I find option 2 & 3 very controlling / spiteful or strange.
