Absolutely. My advice to you is to fight like hell! Separate the emotional part of the divorce from the legal part of the divorce. They really are separate! It becomes tremendously advesarial once opposing lawyers get involved. That's just the way it is. Get ready man, because you're fixing to see and hear things from her, via her lawyer, that you NEVER thought possible! This is the war that nobody wins, and the kids are the innocent victims...so put on your armor (mentally and emotionally).
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
