Well, I don't know that I agree. I think retrovaille might get OM out of the pic for her.
And I definitely think her searching is a good sign and would not negatively read into it. Better yet, don't read either way and then you won't go nuts. Pigskin I cannot speak for your w but in Stuck's sitch his w is pretty Unwell and even she knows it. So I hesitate to project too much of our own situations onto others when they may not apply. I don't know, but I'm mentioning that.
Stuck, if your w's relative is a nun, maybe that's a great thing. We saw nuns when we went but only afterwards and my h is not Catholic nor did we feel the need to be Catholic to get anything out of it. Also you do NOT share with others at the retreat. It's not a workshop where you must disclose things or open yourself up to anyone other than your spouse BUT you do have to get rid of OP to atttend... AGREE that you should NOT bring it up as that is major pursuit, but wanted to explain my pov on it...
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