Ditto to all that, CB!

Your BIL and all the family appreciated your being there more than you will ever know.

And how you held up during a sermon on 50 years M and such... I will never know.

You are bringing your inner peace to others, and that is as the Buddha, Jesus, and all the other great teachers ask us to do.

Peace.

Me: 44
Him: 42
Together: 23 years; never married
Bomb: August 1, 2009
Affair since May 2009
Walk away; no conversation; no process