Good job being persistent, mb! And thank you for being honest about your fears...I know all about not wanting to rock the boat with WH right now! (even though it may be the wrong thing to do...I just don't want to call his bluff!)
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004