Can't find resources I need?? Help!

[Augtan]

I have looked and looked and cannot find the the "stages of MLC" resource. Everytime I find something and click on it, it goes back to the main page. I think XH is coming to one of the last stages, I breifly read that reconnecting with the kids is one of them. I want to read about this. OW is gone, XH told me he loves me and always has, told D17 tonight that he is so sorry he has been distant the last few years, we are taking the kids on Spring Break together next month. I want to do this all correctly. I want to go on this trip being carefree and fun, no R talk, no rehashing the past, just pure family fun! But, I also want to understand more of where he is in all this. I have researched and researched MLC on the net, but haven't found the stages stuff. Help if you can! Thanks!