Remember this is not about him at this time. If you do not want to speak to him then dont. YOu can be respectful and courteous and let him know that tommorow will not work for you, you are a little busy that you would like to reschedule.

Don't do things you don't want to do if you don't have to do them. He doesn't need anything from you to file, maybe he wants to see your reaction and test you face to face since you have not had face to face in 2 months.

So why is there a have to talk to him?


Me 39 H 30
d 18 previous marriage
d 2.5 with H
s 4.5months with H
Seperation Nov09
july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline