Originally Posted By: Gardener
gima, I'm glad.
Originally Posted By: givingitmyall
Doing much better tonight. It's amazing what moving my focus from her and our past to my future can do. Emotion follows thought.
I have yet to read up on that whole cognitive dissonance theory. I must.


I highly recommend it. It's strange how sometimes we get so swept up in our situations, we stop using the tools we learned. At least I do.

All day, I have consciously made myself focus forward and not behind.

Me 43, S11, D7
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