Talk About a Quick Divorce

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My attorney said get this thing done asap or you will be dragging this out for a year and its going to cost you a lot of money, businesses, probably your job because you can't concentrate etc...You can always go back and get married again if you guys decide it was a mistake but at least you are protecting your assets and making sure that you STBX doesn't go out and blow away your kids security.

So, the ex and her OM didn't seem to think in a small community, being in the same martial arts club, and the coincidence of the two divorces happening so quickly out of what was perfectly happy enviable relationships would raise an eyebrow. In my Ex's words, "There is no reason why anyone besides the 4 of us should ever have to know this." Guess what everyone knows this. Some of them put it together based on pictures on hers and his facebooks that show them near each other in all the pictures etc...Soooooo now she doesn't have a lot of support, she took a lot less out of the divore than she could have because she wanted out so quickly and she was concerned I would litigate it. My attorney said he would put her on the witness stand and cross examine her, her OM, call into question her judgement, file the divorce under adultry as opposed to irrenconcileable differences, and that all proceedings would be a part of public record. She walked with 1/2 the savings, securities etc... and I took the larger of two business. She went from 500k a year household income to 90-100k a year because I work a full time corporate job on top of the businesses we own/owned and she didn't get alimony or child support.

So in the next posts I will get onto the questions and hopefully some feedback from of you all. The affair is still going on. He told his 9 year old that he was going to "date" Ms XXXXX. They have been divorced only 2 mos.

More to follow.

S